Living Life Packages

On this page you will find suggested packages of work to do by email. These packages have to do with clearing the way for our lives to work in more of the way we would like. Remember you don't have to choose packages when you work by phone. These are ideas only meant to help you find what works best for you if you want to work by email.

Here is the List of our Living Life Packages. Click on their name to read more about them.

• Life Transitions
• Prosperity
• Career
• College Students
• Searching for Soulmates
• Supporting Healthy Relationships
• Parenting
• Health and Aging

Transitions can be anything;

• From relationships ending to relationships beginning
• From adding or losing children to adding or losing pets.
• From changing jobs to changing homes.
• From living with chronic illness to dying.
• From changing careers to changing schools.
• From beginning a fitness program to beginning a diet.
• From growing to healing.

Every decision we make creates new dimensions in our lives. The more we are able to embrace change, the easier our lives will be and the more we can experience life as an adventure.

1. HOC: Accepting and Integrating change: What else is there to say? Becoming more flexible internally is like squirting our lives with WD40. <grin>
2. HOC: Impatience: This issue seems to come with the territory. So many times we know we need to make a change, and drag our feet. Then suddenly, we make the decision to change and we want it to magically move from what it was to what we want and resist the inevitable time it takes to get from point A to point B.
3. HOC: Letting Go and Grieving: We sometimes overlook the need to grieve what we are choosing to release. Grieving is important to our emotional balance. Grieving is becoming aware of our part in the process of moving forward. When we resist letting go, we get stuck holding on to too many things, which shows up as frustration and even exhaustion.
4. HOC: Releasing Illusion: Many times once we decide to let go, we look back only to realize that what we were actually holding on to had very little to do with what we thought we were attached to. One example of this issue is in children becoming adults and holding on to their imaginary, ideal parent. We can get frozen in our lives trying to earn that illusion's approval or love.
5. HOC: Surrender and Integration: This is a deep one. As we let go of old things, we are learning to surrender our fears and trust in the process, whatever that may be. We are consciously choosing to allow change to nestle into our hearts and become a chosen part of who we are becoming.
6. HOC: Self Responsibility: In this context we are focusing on remembering who we are and who we are creating ourselves to become. We are recognizing that we are ultimately responsible for everything that happens in our lives, (yes, everything) and the other side of this coin is self empowerment. When we realize that we are the author of our own lives, then we realize that we can change the way our story writes itself.

1. Either HOC: Anxiety or HOC: Depression: Many people are dealing with either anxiety or depression in the area of money and career. Some even need both of these Houses of Cards. If you believe you need both, then add $30.00 to the price of this Package, or you may decide to have it done later at the normal rate of $39.00.
2. HOC: Receiving: In the context of abundance and prosperity, receiving is, to say the least, important. If you have trouble receiving you may actually push away abundance and even opportunities that may lead to abundance.
3. HOC: Finding My Passion: This is one of the keys to being happy in life. Allowing yourself to know and live in your passion, as well as, bring in prosperity may be a foreign concept to you. Give yourself the gift of an open mind and an open heart, allow your perceptions and beliefs to change in this area. Your world will never be the same.
4. HOC: Motivation: This House of Cards addresses HOW you motivate yourself. Are you currently one who scares yourself into doing what you think needs to be done? Maybe you threaten yourself with worst case scenarios if you mess up. Can you imagine how much happier you will be when you are motivating yourself with love and excitement? What a joy to easily complete a task and enjoy feeling good about your efforts.
5. HOC: Abundance: Finally, we are ready to clear those old vows and oaths of poverty you may have taken in your efforts to find your path in previous life times. Now is your chance to clear out those beliefs that seem like facts that keep you strapped for cash and/or feeling poverty stricken. Many clients report feeling like they have money, even though their bank account is about the same. This ingredient of FEELING abundant is one of the most powerful keys we know of to manifest abundance. When you FEEL happy, you are drawing more happiness to you. When you FEEL abundant, you draw more abundance to you.
6. Opportunity Beacon: Now you are clear of the blocks to abundance, you are ready to take it all in. What you need now is to create abundance pipelines flowing toward you. This Beacon broadcasts who you are, what you have to offer. At the same time it is an advertisement for who and what situations you are seeking. Bet you have never ran an ad like this one!

1. HOC: Communications: This clearing is all about communicating in a business setting. Giving and receiving instructions from those around you, as well as hearing what others are saying with less of that nagging issue of taking things personally when the motivation was "purely business" on the part of the speaker.
2. HOC: Motivation and Procrastination: We all deal with getting through life and making progress in a days work. When we lack confidence, worry about our performance and have nightmares about forgetting something. these anxieties can play out in ways that slow or even stop our productivity.
3. HOC: Confidence: Speaking of confidence. is your hiding behind that expensive business suit?
4. HOC: Authority and Power: Whether you are the big cheese or the mouse in the corner of your work world, you are likely wrestling with how to interact with those in power and those with influence. Clearing this cluster can begin the process of making sense of this often confusing terrain.
5. HOC: Judging vs Discernment; In the world of business we are often faced with needing to know the difference between those we can trust and those who may be watching out for their own needs at the expense of ours. When we our balance between believing the best of others and suspecting trouble in every corner, we may inadvertently set ourselves up for trouble. Becoming clearer about the differences between being judgmental and using our discernment skills gives us a strong center from which to draw our strength.
6. HOC: Deserving Respect and Abundance: Knowing that we have something that others respect is fundamental to our inner awareness of our value as a person. Money is only a small facet of the expression of worth our world has discovered. Choosing to feel respect within our being is our own individual choice. The more we are able to believe in our own worth, the more others are able to buy into our belief. When we all have a knowing of what something is worth, we are all winners; both the one who buys and the one who sells.

1. HOC: Learning: This clearing is all about helping to open up your mind and take in new information. We need to release those anxieties about "doing it right" or maybe even being afraid of learning about something we have always thought was useless information, or even dark or evil.
2. HOC: Fear of Failure: Can you believe our world actually uses "F" to let us know without a doubt that we have "Failed"? This clearing is about letting go of even the more subtle ways we can "fail" ourselves and others. In my way of thinking, there really is no such thing as "failing", only opportunities for learning and growing. Hmm, I think somebody famous said something like this. <smile>
3. HOC: Mental Clarity: This cluster is about allowing your full intellectual potential to merge with your deep passion for knowledge. When we are excited about learning, then we can drink in new ideas with great speed and clarity.
4. HOC: Test Anxiety: In my opinion, more than just a small part of making it to graduation day is the ability to take a test. This clearing is designed to help you let go of your fears around missing the answers, and focus on connecting with your entire being to the material at hand. This is about allowing what you have learned to bubble to the surface to be expressed to others. It's all about allowing yourself to flow with what you know.
5. HOC: Motivation and Procrastination: To make it through school, we need to be able to meet deadlines and keep on going to the next steps. So many of us motivate ourselves with fear, anxiety and even dramas that we create in our minds to spur us on. This clearing is about loving ourselves, and changing the way we move through life.
6. HOC: Finding my Passion: When we decide to spend years of our life focused on a specific field of interest, it's a good idea to dust away confusing signals from other parts of ourselves. We can sometimes discover that we are choosing our parents' passion, or even something that we think is within our intellectual capacity, yet not our heart's calling. Now it's time to clear the way to your own heart, and hear clearly the cries of joy, and see fireworks in your mind when you touch the areas of your deepest interests.

1. HOC: Letting Go, Grieving: Even if you are searching for your first relationship and you feel like you have nothing to let go of or grieve, you probably do. We all have had childhoods and we need to let go of our need for our parents' approval, just as an example of things we need to release to clear ourselves.
2. HOC: Relationships (Intimate): This is all about clearing out those fears of trusting another person with your heart.
3. HOC: Identity: Take your power, own your space, choose to inhabit this body and become who you are independent of anyone else. When your identity is solid your relationships are stronger.
4. HOC: Giving, Receiving: The more in balance these energies are within you, the more in balance they will be in your relationships.
5. Giving - Receiving Switch Though this one sounds like it is the same as the House of Cards about Giving and Receiving, it is completely different. With this one, many people notice much more choice and the ability to bring to consciousness when they are giving and when they are receiving, and to choose what is in line with their hearts in that moment.
6. Soulmate Beacon With all you have done within yourself you are ready to get serious about making your intentions known to the universe, clearly and concisely.

• HOC: Abandonment: So often we are afraid those we love most will leave us. Many times this fear has roots in our childhood. Parents don't have to physically abandon a child to play a role in this issue. Emotional absence, or emotional attachment can be just as devastating to our development.
• HOC: Jealousy, Insecurity: Another fear-based dynamic that can cause so much pain. When we realize that we are insecure, we can begin to heal ourselves, and release our often innocent partner from our constant vigil.
• HOC: Sexuality (specify gender): We, as a society, learn about sexuality in some often inefficient and even destructive ways. This clearing is a strong first step to your own healing. We are spirits living in a human body, and loving our bodies, even daring to enjoy them, can be a challenge if we have been raised in shame.
• HOC: Anger: In Relationships, anger can show up as a brilliant way for us to know something isn't working between two people. However, when anger is out of balance, it is experienced as painful to its target.
• HOC: Childhood Trauma: When we choose another person with whom to share our lives we invariably discover ourselves reliving our own childhood wounds. If these wounds are left open and painful, we can get confused as to where that pain actually comes from. These issues are often deep and layered. Clearing the beliefs is a powerful beginning to a much deeper healing.

1. HOC: Communications; This belief cluster is all about how we interact with this special person. We all have ways of communicating with others, and much of our "style" of communication is based on what we believe about ourselves and others.
2. HOC: Compassion and vulnerability; The more we are able to empathize with our partner, the more we can connect. If our partner is also skilled at empathizing, this creates an emotional safety between both people; vulnerability then becomes a gentle next step.
3. HOC: Defensiveness and Anger: Even great relationships have some bumps in them at times. This clearing is about listening to our anger and understanding it as a symptom of a deeper issue. Anger is caused by what we are thinking, which is often times an distortion of what actually is. These distortions are often based on past experiences reflecting those we associate with pain.
4. HOC: Judging and being judged: We can cause ourselves and others so much unnecessary pain when we jump to painful conclusions based on little or no information. We sometimes add interpretations to innocent observations. Becoming aware of how we judge others can allow us the opportunity to release these illusions and replace them with a much brighter reality.
5. HOC: Co dependency: The "C" word! Every relationship, in my most humble opinion, has issues that are powerful growing mediums for co dependency. This clearing will start taking the edge off this confusing area, and help you being to be more aware of when you are participating in co dependency. Recognizing your role and finding new ways of loving is a challenge and oh so worth it!
6. Clearing between 2 people: Karma, Soul Contracts, Soul Fragments. (Counts as 3 Items) This clearing is highly recommended between two people at any time, and especially those who want to be working on only this life time's issues. Clearing these past connections relieves that sensation of obligation and supports our efforts to find our identity WHILE being in a committed relationship. This clearing is done for each individual, as well as clearing as a couple. When I do this work on just one person, the clearings may affect the other person as well, if they allow the clearing to happen. However, when both people want the clearing at a conscious level, then I can do all three clearings for both people at the same time. That saves me time, and saves you money.

• HOC: Abandonment: So often we are afraid those we love most will leave us. Many times this fear has roots in our childhood. Parents don't have to physically abandon a child to play a role in this issue. Emotional absence, or emotional attachment can be just as devastating to our development.
• HOC: Jealousy, Insecurity: Another fear-based dynamic that can cause so much pain. When we realize that we are insecure, we can begin to heal ourselves, and release our often innocent partner from our constant vigil.
• HOC: Sexuality (specify gender): We, as a society, learn about sexuality in some often inefficient and even destructive ways. This clearing is a strong first step to your own healing. We are spirits living in a human body, and loving our bodies, even daring to enjoy them, can be a challenge if we have been raised in shame.
• HOC: Anger: In Relationships, anger can show up as a brilliant way for us to know something isn't working between two people. However, when anger is out of balance, it is experienced as painful to its target.
• HOC: Childhood Trauma: When we choose another person with whom to share our lives we invariably discover ourselves reliving our own childhood wounds. If these wounds are left open and painful, we can get confused as to where that pain actually comes from. These issues are often deep and layered. Clearing the beliefs is a powerful beginning to a much deeper healing.

1. HOC: Childhood Trauma: When we choose another person with whom to share our lives we invariably discover ourselves reliving our own childhood wounds. If these wounds are left open and painful, we can get confused as to where that pain actually comes from. These issues are often deep and layered. Clearing the beliefs is a powerful beginning to a much deeper healing.
2. HOC: Assertiveness and Setting Boundaries: Children need structure to help them feel secure in the world. Structure need not be harsh punishment. We can learn to be strong and loving as we say "no" to those we love. We can learn to set boundaries that define both "yes" and "no". The more we are able to keep the lines clearly set, the easier our children will be able to design their own character.
3. HOC: Control vs Respect: Many of us have grown up believing that children need to be controlled. We may have trouble moving into a deeper relationship with our children as they grow up and demand, and deserve, our respect. This clearing is crucial to the process of nurturing an ever-changing relationship with our infants, who become toddlers, who become teens, only to become fully independent adults.
4. HOC: Power vs Force: Yet another facet of the gem of discipline. We are the adults, and we choose this responsibility of bringing up our children the best way we know how. The way we interact with them is modeling how to handle power in relationships. Many of us are adults who have been raised by parents who did not understand how they were teaching us about power. Now we can clear the basic beliefs that hold these confusing messages in place in our own lives. As we make more sense out of our understanding of healthy power, we will be raising a more balanced generation.
5. HOC: Communications (Family): The language between parent and child is ever evolving. It begins with smiles and cooing only to merge into "why" and then to "who says" and on into "No Way!" finally to come into some degree of "Now that I have my own children..". Being flexible in our communications with others takes empathy, discernment, trust and a willingness to make mistakes.
6. HOC: Discerning vs Judging: As our little ones grow up, they try new things, and demand more from us as well as from themselves. Especially during the teen years, we need to learn how to know when we are judging them with a built in negative spin, and when we are discerning that what they are doing may truly hurt them. Discernment is about respect. Judging is about our own opinions.

1. Either HOC: Anxiety or HOC: Depression: Many people are dealing with either anxiety or depression in the area of health and aging. Some even need both of these Houses of Cards. If you believe you need both, then add $30.00 to the price of this Package, or you may decide to have it done later at the normal rate of $39.00.
2. HOC: Aging: We are getting older, that's just the way it works. However, many of us have beliefs about growing old that can make a vast difference in how we age. Are you one who believes getting old means getting sick? You may be defining your age as old way before you need to thus sending a message to the universe that your intention is to get old and sick very soon.
3. Deactivate Termination Clock: You've heard the expression, "My number isn't up yet." There seems to be a "clock" within us that is set for a certain age. If our Termination clock is set for 66 your body may begin to shut down at 64. However, if that clock were deactivated, your body would have no need to shut down simply due to an internal clock.
4. HOC: Birth, death, near death; Now is the chance to clear way those traumas around birth and death, beginning and ending. Even if you believe you had a "normal" birth, it is still a trauma. Have you almost died? Have you died and been revived? sometimes near-death experiences can be a positive experience, in some cases you may need to clear the trauma all around that experience.
5. HOC: Fear of Dying, death wish; In previous lives, we sometimes have varying views of death. We may think of it as an escape. Some have lived in cultures where dying is an honor. What we need is a clarity around death, so that we have more choices about how we live.
6. HOC: Suffering, Martyrdom: Are you one of those people who seems to always be in pain, emotionally, physically even spiritually? Do you find yourself putting yourself last, if at all. You probably have some old vows and oaths around suffering. That's old energy, let it go.
7. HOC: Health: Now we are ready to clear any other blocks to healing that you may have in the area of health. We encourage you to continue working with your health professionals during this process. If your health situation has improved, that is wonderful! We would love to hear your story! Even so, the purpose of this Pathway Package is to support any other work you are doing, as opposed to replacing your health practitioners